mood: you and me

On dating apps like Tinder, Bumble and Badoo, appearance is the only aspect you use to connect with others. People voluntarily upload their best photos to these apps to be judged with a kind heart, while modestly hoping to find something special.

Dating apps have made us extremely used to easily having impersonal interactions, eliminating what it means to truly get to know someone. If we continue presenting ourselves as photo galleries, we may end up in an apocalyptic reality within the complicated world of online dating.

“Almost nobody ever talks”, is one of the most common complaints we hear about this type of app. The truth is, many people are just there to take a look and see who else is signed up. If you really care about someone, you don't stop talking to them for a week and then send them a couple of messages at 2 a.m. on a Saturday night.

We have decided to put an end to all this at 'If not you, nobody'. Conversation is the most important thing on our app when it comes to meeting other people. But you won't save yourself the trouble of having to flirt and win someone over like in real life. Other dating apps have sold us the illusion of ease and immediacy, but the truth is that it takes time and, of course, love, like many things in life.

Do you know what's sexy? A real conversation. If you don't do something as basic as getting to know someone, it isn't going to end well. If the messages don't flow between you, you won't have to expose yourself to anything or anyone. Your profile will remain private in the eyes of others.

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