If not you, nobody

the cure for online dating fatigue

I'm not your “sometimes”

Searching on It's a Match! is cool. Then when you've got them, ignore them. This all makes the art of finding that "someone special" more difficult every day. In 'If not you, nobody', we are convinced that everyone should feel “exclusive” and “unique”, so there is never more than one conversation at a time. Rest assured that you are alone while you get to know one another. You won't have to wonder if you are talking to a “match collector” or a “digital diva”.

no time for
fake people

The virtual world is a difficult environment. Almost everyone knows how to retouch photos to perfection, and pose to get the perfect photo. We rely more on the basics: communication, presence, attention and of course aesthetics, which is important to everyone. Fake profiles are the most frustrating thing about other dating apps. In 'If not you, nobody', we won't let something like that to happen to you again. Are profiles verified? Yaaas! We reserve the right to refuse admission.

mood:
you & me

On dating apps like Tinder, Bumble and Badoo, appearance is the only aspect you use to connect with others. If we continue presenting ourselves as photo galleries, we may end up in an apocalyptic reality within the complicated world of online dating. We have decided to put an end to all this in 'If not you, nobody'. If the messages don't flow between you, you won't have to expose yourself to anything or anyone. Your profile will remain private in the eyes of others.

if I'm important
to you, show me

Let's face it, many people use dating apps for one night stands. But if you're looking for a relationship that could turn into something more, you must let the conversation flow and find out all the things you have in common. If you achieve that, the face-to-face meeting will be much easier and you won't feel like complete strangers. We gradually show you the profile of the person you have connected with, so you have more time to get to know the person you are chatting to, before making a quick judgment simply based on their appearance.

don't play
with me

Surely you've heard terms like “ghosting”, “benching”, “breadcrumbing” and “compulsive right-swipers”. Well, now you can say goodbye to people who treat you like a second fiddle or completely disappear. We all know that being single today can be exhausting. In 'If not you, nobody', we stand for “less is more” and “quality over quantity”. This eliminates the anxiety of immediate gratification when looking for a partner, rife in other dating apps. We are not perfect, but we are real and unique.