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the cure of online dating fatigue

'If not you, nobody' is much more than a dating app! We aim to be a community of people who experience relationships in a more real and natural way, ending the sad and worn out “swipe right” era.

We can't deny that we live in a world where physical attraction is part of the equation when we're looking for stable relationships. Love or lust at first sight is a cliché that has held steady for many years. The only thing we know so far is that, in the end, the search is reduced to the one thing that has worked since the beginning of time: the chemistry between two people. That chemistry is the sum of many other things (not just a simple photo), which makes you connect, or not, with who you're supposed to meet in real life.

We decided to take the next step in 2016 and began developing our idea. Appetence was our first version. We did not try to widely distribute that version, but instead we tried to learn from those who, for one reason or another, decided to try our “Slow Dating” concept.

It was a very difficult stage, but we learned from our own mistakes. 'If not you, nobody' is the result of more than two years of hard work, during which time we modelled our concept to meet the needs of those searching for stable relationships. It has not been easy, since we are still the same small and independent company. We are so different from the large corporations that drive millions of users, but our effort and passion to make our idea reality will always be endless.

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